Actually, this happens with many women, usually when they are in there 30's though. I have gone through it. I think 2 things help. 1. Push her up against the well and devour her (really hot & passionate, don't bump her head though). Don't talk about it, just be really passionate. If she is willing, put in a porno. It always amazes me that they can get me going even though I am initially turned off by them. Don't do this a lot though. It just helps to get things going and remember what it is like to feel passion and have an orgasm. 2. There are new drugs out for women who are having a problem "getting into it".

She may not be feeling very sexual because she is tired, you've been having sex for a while, and it may be partly physical too. I was practically a nimpho and then my body just seemed to turn off when I was 27. I got tired of doing it when I wasn't really getting enjoyment out of it. It seemed wrong to let him know that I wasn't enjoying it because it wasn't his fault and it seemed wront to fake it. So, it is easier not to be effectionate and not chance getting him turned on. Try my suggestions. If she is really offended by porn, skip it. Be different in bed. Totally different.

If you love her, you can have patience with sex. There also may be underlying problems in other areas of your relationship that neither one of you are conscious of. Be careful to see if you have undermined anything important to her. If you did, correct it. Women need to have trust in bed.

Good luck. I hope things work out for both of you. It sounds like you love each other and this will just be an experience you can both look back on. It won't last forever. She loved sex at one time. It is silly for anyone to think she wants to be frigid or that she will stay that way.