Why you think it is a good thing? U know i have the same problem with my bf... he is a very "close" person and never tells me his problems, even if he says he has them... that`s bad coz i can`t help him and i don`t feel like being a part of his life...
I think the best thing you can do is to make him understand that u`r not a stranger ... though it`ll take much time...

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