I asked her just recently regarding where we stand in our relationship and also advised her that if she wanted to be just friends to give me some time off so that i can put behind me any love (girlfriend) feelings. She replied she didnt want that she wanted to work things out etc.... At the moment she's in France when she returns I just might take her on a small adventurous vacation to a near by theme park (derail her train a little from work) and attempt the slam on the wall move that downwithlove recomended.