It sounds to me like you were puting your love to the test without his knowledge. Maybe even without your own. What's done is done. There isn't anything to complain about. You set the rules and then you threw the rules out the window. It was your fault and you really have no right to be any bit mad at him. If you didn't want him to keep going at it, you should have stopped it. He would have understood. You just let it keep happening and you pretended you liked it. It really sounds to me like you were playing head games. Cut the guy some slack. You offered him a threesome. Most guys wouldnt turn that down. You mislead him and I think it's you who should be saying sorry here. You must have him all confused and worried now. It's not fair. If you didn't like it, talk to him and tell him no more. Get on with your life and let the past stay in the past. No harm done. Just let it be over.

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