[quote:eb88fe9b36="mr fark"]Don't expect to enjoy sex the 1st time. It would be painful for you, and the male may get turned off if he sees the blood from hymen.[/quote:eb88fe9b36]

don't scare her off! it can be be good, it can ben nice, but it's unfortunately not always like that.

lucky for you, Stephanie154, is that you and your guy really love each other, which helps. but talk to each other, relax, and indeed, have foreplay ... that will get him hard enough and you will get wet enough

good luck!