She's self-consious. She has two failed marriages, three kids (which she probably thinks in the back of her mind that people view as "baggage") and so is scared that you will eventually leave (like every OTHER man in her life) and so this is a pre-emptive strike. Try to find a way to talk to her and assure her that you ARE interested in her and her life and want to talk about where this is going. And be honest.

Rod Steele