In hindsight a little birth control and perhaps the control to say, "No" when being proposed to might not have been a bad thing, huh? Now this guys REALLY gonna feel ****ed when his FIANCE decides to break up with him for the reason of 'never really loved you' after becoming pregnant with his child . . . . I feel sorry for that poor guy.

So my first thing is, for the love of God and all that is holy in this world, start being responsible.

And part of being responsible is just leaving Jon alone. You broke up. You went your separate ways. Leave it that way.

Break up with your fiance and let him know you're pregnant (if he doesn't already know). And please, PLEASE, figure out what you want in a guy before you go for it. And leave poor Jon alone. He's got a girlfriend, that's having HIS kid, and is happy with her. Don't create mass hysteria in HIS life too.