ok heres the deal. i dated this girl for 6 years. we break up because i loved her, but wasnt "in love" with her. So i met someone else, and she had been in my same situation. we fell in love with each other, spent close to a year together, then she ended up going back to her ex and me mine. (very screwed up siuation). Now, 4 months being back with my ex of 6yrs, at first everything was better but now things are starting to feel like they did in the end before. also, there hasnt a day went by i thought of that other girl. AND, the other night, at such a random, we decided to meet up for supper, and we ended up spending time with each other for hours, and it ended up hugging, kissing, and just feeling so good being with each other. its like half of my brain tells me i need to tell the one im with that its over im not in love with her anymore, and go to the other girl and let her know shes who i want...then the other half still loves the one im with, i care for her, and the thought of her being out of my life forever and her being with someone else just, i guess you could say freaks me out. IM SO CONFUSED. All i want to know is just have that "i for sure know, and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you" feeling. Any advice would be appreciated. thanks......