Originally Posted by Fawn
I deffinitly want to hear how this one has played out.
I think your doing the right thing though. Plus listen to a what Lucid said as well. He has some good points.
And ... ummm... "bad boy"... you found my weakness... *drools* ... lol...
You must also realise that you have changed a bit since that "bad boy" image. You have to be yourself, thats what really counts.
Since the begining of time in High School, I fell in love with a girl of my dreams. The relationship did not work, I was somewhat used for sexual needs and desires. But I was in love, but she doubted me after because I thought that since she was a grade older, I thought things would be the same as a freshmen. But that was 4-6 years ago. Since then, it's been nothing but flings, one nighters, and affairs. I learned about it and more. But then I have this friend whom I'd never mess with. But then signals started flying and I wanted to quit my "bad boy" image because this action felt too good. So I started getting the impression that she liked me. All her friends asked me, "are you going to ask her out"? All I said was that we were cool. But then she stop being the friend that I knew. Signals fell to the floor from the sky and it was no more. So that is why I want to head to my normal self again as a "bad boy" because I know that I wont hurt as much as it will hurt.
Lucid, I dunno if it's a good idea to ask her what is the matter? You know how young girls are, always undecisive about things and what they want. We are 3 years apart. I am much older. But I think that if she is being different, it's because she hasn't gotten over her ex yet, or she is seing that she likes her other guy friend more then me(which the other guy is unattracted), but u never know? But I will speak with her and let time pass us by.