In my case my dilema is slightly complicated by the fact that the married woman seems interested in me. I don't know how much interest she has and that kills me. It almost feels like given a chance she'd continue to have our little secret "meetings".

I'm also somewhat nervous about talking to her about it... I don't know what her take on the whole situation is and I don't know if I can find enough private time to talk with her. I feel like I should talk to her before I/we reveal what happened. Would it be that bad if we didn't tell anyone what happened as long as we didn't do it again?