Thanks Faby! That really helps. I was actually thinking along the same lines. The thing is I really like this woman but I don't know how she feels about me or her marriage. I should really talk to her and see what's going on.

That's a good point, Clifton, but at the same time I'm not sure if she'd be that open with just anyone. I need to find out more information. I have reason to believe that she really likes me too but she's married. I need more information. There are too many what ifs here.

Thanks for the posts and please keep them coming. The more perspectives I hear the better I can make the right decision. I originally felt I should talk to her to figure out what exactly happened and what is going on in her marriage. Then (most likely) not do anything ever again and tell her husband what happened so that we don't have that secret. But as Faby points out, what if she's not happy? What if she didn't approach me earlier because she didn't think I shared her feelings? What if she just wasn't thinking? What if she really is a slut? Too many questions! I need more information!