so i need to be happy to get love, but i need love to get happy.
hmmm
No No No! How about erase all of the "worrying about finding love" from your mind and concentrate on yourself... Okay, love makes you happy. Thats one thing. But, there has to be a million other things that make you happy as well. Single life is fun too! Just be yourself and stop caring about finding the perfect guy or the next guy your going to fall in love with. Go out, party, make new friends. Either way, stop sulking. The less you care about falling in love or meeting the next boyfriend, the less desperate you will seem and the more attractive you will become to guys.