Originally Posted by Prodigal
Yeah, it's very disheartening and hurts the morale. But the way I look at it, I'd keep going. The hope of finding someone who loves me and who I love also keeps me going. The good guys may finish last, but hey- they have a better shot at finding something true. I think that will make it so much better when love really comes.
It IS very disheartening and my morale's at an all time low. BUT - I'm not a quitter, I know she's out there. Like I said, it's partly my fault as I've lazy about socializing lately. Tonight, I'm gonna dress up, hold my head high and go to a friends concert at a local club, even if I have to force myself to.
I'd like to add that as much as loneliness sucks, sometimes it's better to be single and lonely with the potential of finding someone special than it is to be stuck in a bad or 'flat-lined' realtionship where you're lonely but yet can't look around for someone new. Besides, the loneliness is always a temporary condition. We may not see it now on those cold nights, but sure as the sun will rise, somebody will come along, probably when we least expect it. (I think)
Blackie