Listen, there's always going to be problems in a relationship no matter who you're with, you just gotta ask yourself... is there more good than bad? Sure you can pursue girl after girl searching for the perfect relationship... that doesn't exist except inside yourself. You are the one that makes a relationship work... you and whoever you are with. If you are both willing to compromise, and work through the bad times, and leave them in the past you will have the best relationship possable. Don't kid yourself... having a relationship isn't easy... its NEVER easy, in fact its one of the hardest things you'll do in your life, but anybody can do it.

So you really have two choices right now, but the choice is not so much who you date, its what kind of person you want to be. Do you want to be someone who perseveres when the going gets rough, someone that can be counted on to be there? Or do you want to be someone who is continuously chasing the holliwood pipe dream of a perfect relationship? The choice is yours, but you really got to ask yourself, what choice will make you the happiest?

My suggestion is that you focus on your current relationship. Don't even consider anybody else. The next time Jordyn is all over you, tell her you are in a relationship so stop. Then, with no other outside influences, ask yourself, "Does the good outweigh the bad?" If not then end the relationship for that reason, not because you think you have a better catch elsewhere. Then and only then start considering who else you want to be with. The age old proverb "The grass is always greener on the other side" is full of truth. So... do you have the wisdom to listen to truth? Or are you foolish enough to let human nature get the best of you?

Tennyson