18-12-04, 10:47 PM
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I'm probably going to be against what everybody else is saying. There is a general rule that is human nature: Rule #1: If you smother somebody, they will push you away
Rule #2: If you show yourself to somebody as a provider by buying them dinner, offering gifts, etc etc etc... They will either react as Rule #1 (push you away) or they will see you as a PROVIDER.. somebody to PROVIDE for them, and not somebody to LOVE.
Now, my suggestion to you is this: Send her roses.. one time. On her birthday, actually.
Now.. avoid her. Completely. Absolutely COMPLETELY! You need to find something to keep you busy bud, cuz if you do this right you're going to be alone for a good 2 weeks or so. Everytime she calls, just say "Hey i gotta go.. I can't talk right now bye." DO NOT APOLOGIZE FOR HAVING TO GO
Ok, so to her, you sent her roses.. then you won't talk to her anymore! First, this shows you as unpredictable. Now, that you are in a relationship with her, and you are able to walk away without apologizing.. daaaaamn dude you've got some hott shit goin' on. That shows independence mah friend.
Boost your self-confidence level up.. Yes, even if it's pretty high, boost it up a little bit.
Then, she should be callin' you a whole lot more. If she asks you to call her.. come in 25-30 minutes late, you know. You're BUSY now and you don't have time for nothing but HER. So, concidering this, don't sweat it man. Do not care if she can't do something or return an email or whatever. Play it cool bro. She'll begin to realize what it's like without you. good advice from a 14 year old? 
Last edited by King Zarathu : 18-12-04 at 10:51 PM.
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