Well now that i got my head on more striaght thanks to the 14 year old, lol i find it ironic coming from him, but nevertheless thank you very much.... now what about gift idea's on x-mas and what the hell do i do on the 22nd. thas our month verssery and she doesnt want me to get her anything but i want her to know thatll im there for her.... I got idea's of my own but id like to know what other people would do too. thanks LTsK8eR2gO and thank you too bandoman becuase i belive you both are right.