I know exactly how you feel, but yes it is possible. I love my boyfriend more then anything in this world - but I still look at other men and I'm attracted to them - I wouldn't be human otherwise. However, it would tear my heart out if I even thought about doing anything with anyone else. I might find other men attractive but that is it. Everyone likes attention and it's flattering but I know its hard, but don't be jealous. DO you not look at women at all anymore? Even just thinking someone is pretty??