Originally Posted by tokey
you are right I am attracted to other girls. but I just don't understand why she would not tell me about it. I guess it kinda hurts to know that my gf is attracted to other guys. but she does say she does not look at all. do I have any hope in her not looking
Tokey - just chill - I look at other blokes and even get chatted up by them - but I don't tell my boyfriend - I don't tell him because it would upset him and there is nothing to worry about. If she told you about every bloke that she looked at well she'd drive herself crazy. It is perfectly normal and natural to check out other people. Has she given you any reason to think she would ever do anything with someone else?
I just want you to not worry. I feel exactly the same about my boyfriend and hate it when he even says a girl is pretty but I know he loves me and now I do the same thing - we're allowed to look!! Like you said you check out other girls - do you tell your girlfriend??