Out of curiousity, have you asked any girls out? Do you keep getting rejected or do you just "not have" a girlfriend? Cause in order to get one, you're gonna have to get out there and start asking them out, asking for numbers, etc. etc. From your post it doesn't seem like you do much of that. It seems to me that you just talk to girls and hope to 'hit it off' and maybe even wait for them to offer up a number or ask if they can see you again.

If that's kinda the case, it's all about grabbin' a set and actively pursuing them.

Alexi