As to reply to your question alexi, yes i have, and have been turned down.. many a times.. one went as far as to basically rip my heart out and eat it in front of my face (in a verbal sense), that was a big confidence breaker that one haha but i guess lifes not fair, so i just cry myself a river build myself a bridge and get over it. lol

Anyway back to the question, yeh i have tried asking them out and ive been turned down, most of the time is id just rather stay friends wiht you coz i i dont wanin ruin our friendship. but as i said ive had my share of verbal beatings from stubborn females haha (no offense)

And for you doll i dont have many groups i can be in, im in the army here in new zealand and we really only get the weekends off and that time is spent usually sleeping or out on the town wiht the boys and girls i know from the army down there.
I played golf and surfed hard out when i used to live in auckland, and i met a few girls through that but now im down in them army in palmerston north i dont have time for that any more well i do for golf, but ive justr recently had knee surgery which i still recovering from.

by the way your girls / guys even know where i am in this world? ie new zealand?