I talked to her last night and although we did not tackle the question of how she felt about it directly I got the impression that she had a we should not do anything about it attitude. She's having a party tonight and her main point was that the whole kissing thing should not be a "topic" for tonight.

She said she told her husband. I asked her if I should not come to the party and she said it was ok. She also talked to a friend of her's and he blamed the alcohol.

Of course, I'm not sure that'll go. I want to go to see her, but I know we can't be together. And that tears me to pieces. I'm sure it would also be really awkward to be around her and her husband.

As before, I expect the best thing to do here is not to take my happiness in to consideration. (In other words, I should not be selfish!) She's obviously happy with her man and I should NOT attempt to get in the way.

Thanks for the replies!

(I appologize to anyone who read this prior to the edit)