Good question....

Doesn't matter to me overall, but by a very slight margin I probably would select 'ordinary girl'. It really depends upon the dynamics of the individual relationship though.

For example, my niece is very happily married to a young Doctor. (Think Duggie Howser, that's his nick-name) A great guy, and he does a fine job of balancing out his professional duties as well as his responsibities to his wife and kids. Then again, she's the type of person that understands that if he receives a phone call at 3am, he HAS to go to the hospital for an emergency. But it takes two people working together, if you know what I mean. Maybe they are a unique case.

Again, I'm not looking for barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen but given the option, I'd choose ordinarly girl.