Originally Posted by Jenrick285
As for the accidental physical part...
It's done, right or wrong, under whatever circumstances....
But in her mind just remember she's kinda shaken and that "Safe" feeling being with you is a bit shaken up... Actions always speak louder than words, under most circumstances... If you want to move past that, then accept it, apologize and move on, if she's willing to move forward, then you can rebuilding some of the stuff you two need, communication, trust, a better understanding of the dynamics that make you two work...
I break between two people is always a good thing, why? I makes us take a different perspective of ourselves and our partners and even makes us more appreciative of them at times.
I hope she can get over those times it became horrible between us, especially the time I struck her (I did not think I had made much contact, but she said it hurt, and she is small, so it probably did). I hope she can get past my leaving her when all else was seeming to fail. Do you think she can? In your experience, have known people to get past such things? If you were she, do you think you could if many other things were wonderful?
I even tried to get us into counseling. I went, she did not. She said she was very eager to do it, but never made an active effort to seek it. Maybe I should have told her precisely "I am going tomorrow, please come" but part of me did not want to force upon her, and part was not sure yet the counselors were good.