Seriously this is the worst
Joe will go CRAZY
i REALLY hate you sorry but i hate people like you think of you in that position
you think you found someone you really love and then he moves on to your best friend
your not even in college theres a 100% chance your gonna brake up with brian
so what are you gonna do
Reck joes live
reck joes friendship with his BEST MATE
and affect joe in every way just becuase you like his best friend.

didnt read what you wrote so i just did now
and they say joes a controlling freak
now thats an easy one
he loves you so much he doesnt want to let you go and will be HEART BROKEN if so hes trying to keep you and wants you really bad and thats the only way he knows how
i think you should stick with joe until you have an actul brake up
wait for some time
make wait for some time
not weeks
mabye months
until brian hits on you
THEN you can go out with him
DONT DESTROY JOES LIFE!
HE HAS A HEART
THINK OF YOURSELF IN JOES POSSITION!