I would be concerned as well as pissed off. She's not showing you much respect. Mixed signals, red flags, maybe it's just me and my new "Zero Bullshit Tolerence" policy, but I'd back off, maybe look around for someone else, and keep her at arms length. See what moves she makes.

Having said that, and I should learn to take my own advice, but I'm really confused about my situation. Read 'Stood up on Xmas,' my post on this board. I need opinions.

Good luck to all of us.

Blackie