Originally Posted by blackiesharley
I would be concerned as well as pissed off. She's not showing you much respect. Mixed signals, red flags, maybe it's just me and my new "Zero Bullshit Tolerence" policy, but I'd back off, maybe look around for someone else, and keep her at arms length. See what moves she makes.
Having said that, and I should learn to take my own advice, but I'm really confused about my situation. Read 'Stood up on Xmas,' my post on this board. I need opinions.
Good luck to all of us.
Blackie
yeah, good luck.
my tendency was to take what i was seeing as "bullshit" for a little bit, try to understand it and let herknow i was trying, and as it persisted to steadily become more and more no-nonsense. she wouldn't get where i was coming from even then, most times, and, like what i said above, got too angry a couple of times (many months into the relationship, but i probably should have just walked as opposed to getting so angry - she clearly wasn't getting the point after months of trying to convey it).
anyhow, seems good to be careful of the "zero b.s." policy - we're all human is how i see it. yet, i personally hope for some fairness at some point from the partner. guess i'm more "zero perpetual bullshit"
thanks and take care. feel free to let me kow what you think of these or my previous post to imokurnot. i'll take a peek at the stood-up-for-Xmas post of yours.