I got stood up too
this is the first year that i lived by myself and the first Chritsmas that I was by myself. I hated it because my ex who i haven't lost and am i n love with stood me up for this guy that he just broke up with in October. I wanted to hang out with him but he decided to hang out with this guy who he broke up with because he wanted to have sex with me. Now its the holidays and he went to this guys family's house which only the next city over from where I live. All week before Christmas he was telling he was deciding to either hang out with or go to this guys house so that pissed me off and he told me I'll call you when I can buit don"t call me. So I guess he's telling me its over i dont want to be negative but it looks loike I've lost him for good

So I know what its like to be ditched for someone else
it bites. Be careful with this girl because emotionally she is not stable but if you see this going somewhere def help her out. I haven't been in her situation but i understand hopw she may have been confused. Especially with exes she may feel some sort obligation to this guy. Don't push too much let her open up to you. Its hard but its the best thing you can do right now.Don't grill her with questions or small stuff eg what hey did or talked about if she wants to tell you she will. She will respect you more i wish i had done this before so at least if i can tell you i knowat least someone will be happy this holiday season I know I wont be