Thats good. Don't pressure her. If you can't handle something then you have to realise that maybe she's not for you. Your only 14. Very young. I didn't get into sex till I was 18. No offence, but I think your a bit young to be having an "adult" relationship. Just my opinion.

Plus, there are a few problems too. Since she's new to this, you have to be very careful and understanding. Even though you might not be pressuring her, she knows that you're more experienced. So, she'll probably think that you want it sometime soon. Thus creating pressure on her without you doing anything. Sorry if thats complicating, but emotions are complicated too.