Update:

I got rid of the older guy...I think that he was #3. We exchanged Christmas presents because he has no one to buy him presents (not close with family) so I got him something and then he got me something. He wasn't doing much on Christmas eve, and I didn't want him to be alone so I invited him to my friends house to have a few drinks. He stayed about 1/2hour, didn't have any drinks, and told me it was boring and he was going home. He worked Christmas day (by choice) and I talked to him Christmas night and haven't heard from him since. He asked if I was going to come out and spend the night and I said no. I called him 2 times to see what was up but he never returned my call. It's for the better. I really just thought of him as a friend, but he was pushing for alot more. I think that he was upset because I didn't invite him to spend Christmas with my family, (he was hinting about it majorly) but they have no idea who he is, and we are not even dating so I thought that was a bit much. He had friends who offered for him to spend it there, but he chose to work.

I haven't spent much time with #1, who is the guy I was with for 2 years. We spend Christmas spereatly. I with my family and he with his. I did spend New Years with him. I do love him, but I do not see myself EVER moving back in with him after all of this. Things are still up in the air. Right now we are still speaking and spending a bit of time together. But that's it. He has gone to the doctor after much convincing because he is depressed. So that is good news. They've prescribed him something.

As far as #2, the smart choice, I've hung out with him over the holidays (as a group). No dating has happened because I don't want to start anything until the time is right. I did give him a hug on Christmas Eve and wished him a merry Christmas, and he kissed me (just a peck). Then told me he loved me (which was a surprise to say the least, I smiled and told him I would see him later) Then he told me later that week that the hug was the best Christmas present he got. (CUTE!). He's a good guy, and he knows my situation with my ex. He knows I need time to figure everything out, and isn't pushing me at all, but told me to take all the time I needed.