Originally Posted by Marlo
All of this seems to have happened before, but just because we had a "fresh start" does that mean that I should keep it in the past?
Personally I can't say. That is entirely up to you. I have never believed in this concept of relationships "taking a break" or having a "fresh start". You are the person you are 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. If change and sacrifice or understanding or whatever doesn’t come naturally, taking a break isn't going to get you anywhere.
You have to either accept that what he did was in the past before your so-called "fresh start" and then allow anything and everything to be considered "ok", or you don't. We can’t decide that for you.
However, with all of these "extra curricular activities" going on outside of your relationship, do you really think he has changed?