I agree with Laguna here. Give her space and time. Drop the entire notion of a relationship altogether. If/when its going to happen, it will.
I have had times in my life where I just didn't feel like dating at all. Sometimes it's good to be alone for awhile after a relationship.
lol, this reminded me of a pseudo "breakup" I went through some time ago with a girl I had been seeing for a few months. I actually told her "It's not me, its you..."
(There was more to it than that, but I will never forget having actually used that line hehe...)