>>>>>Ya'll want careers and independance but you still want the door opened for you and the ticket paid

Actually, I don't expect ever to have a door held for me and many times I've held them for me (and I'm a tiny lady)... and I have ALWAYS paid my 1/2 in a relationship... so CHECK YASELF PAPA!!!!!!!!!!! The times are a-changin' and it is a different world now... one that allows PEOPLE (both sexes) to determine what works for them.