Originally Posted by misombra
this woman is trying to get over a long, hard relationship with someone and a girl has to have some time for that. she has her own place for that same reason, she wants space. give her a chance. give everybody a chance to just mellow down to move forward, do it with some grace. if she wants her time and space then give it to her.
I understand she has had a long hard relationship. I'm coming off one as well. Although not nearly as hard. And yes she does have her own place but the thing is she doesn't really use it. She just gets ready for work there after leaving my house in the morning and she picks up her mail there. I would think if she really wants her time and space then she would spend more time on her own. Doesn't that make sense?
I do want to give her a chance, I love her. But does that mean that I just let things ride or do I try to convince her she needs to be on her own more?
My feelings tell me I want her to stay with me, and it seems by most of her actions she feels the same way. She just doesn't want to give up that apartment. Thats the part I'm having a problem understanding.
Thanks for listening.