I thank you two for your posts but its just too soon for me to be able to hurt her....in that way as far as taking my child, like I said i still care for her. But basically everyone I have talk to are all amazed that im still dealing with her crap so to speak and not just cutting contact off with her all together. I think she is to young and ignorant to understand the concept of love and marriage and she now wants to see other people... but she should have thought about that sooner before "I do". She is only seventeen.....

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