Thx for your answer - can't really help this "infatuation" thingy

But hey, I hear you... I guess I know I HAVE TO be more confident in myself, but it's damn hard when you're used to being the wussy who's practically sweating just when near a girl (mind you, it's gone better)... But I guess I'll have to try and "man up"... I guess there's also cultural differences... In USA I guess you typically get to know a girl a little and then ask her out - it doesn't normallt work that way in Denmark, I thnik... Mostly girls are met at party's and so on and typically when you're a bit drunk at my age.

But I guess I get the point - to get girls attracted, I have to feel attractive and ACT attrractive and confident.... Damn now that's gonna be hard for me... Also, even though I may get to the point where I think we're talking good and so on I have no experience and I have a hard time seeing myself getting on from there... Well... Guess I'll take it one step at a time and try to do the things I see other guys being successful with... It's just that I think this girl's different... She doens't drool over the guys that much when the other girls are... or maybe it's just me being a wuss - anyway, nothing to do but to try and gain confidence

Thx man