Hi, i'm kinda shy, not very confident, thin, and just a bit feminine ( I love poetry and i hate football...i love romance and i think loose sex is stupid). I was wondering what i should do to get more dates with girls....they almost always say no. I havent had a date in 2 years. SHould i pretend to be more confident or wait for a girl who likes shy guys? Should i try to become more tough or stay they way i am??? Any information would help.

Thanks.