DeAngelo offers some solid advice bro, but it sounds like you'll need to keep reading his newsletters to get the full scope of what he's trying to explain. Do a Google search for his mailbag and you can read a lot of previous newsletters. What you should be getting is not necessarily avoiding being nice, but rather, avoiding being nice in order to gain favor from women. The best way to figure the stuff out is to get out there and talk to as many girls as you can, and work on the cocky and funny. You'll start to see all that Dave talks about come together.

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