hey don't worry about being lonely, I'm in the same boat as you. I try not to complain about my lonliness and just keep my head up, knowing that I just need to keep going at it, until I find a girl that likes me.

I agree that it is a skill that takes practice in learning to communicate with women. It's only natural when we learn the skill and use it as if it was natural to begin with. I don't believe some people were born with a skill...people obtained it because of early influence in their life, or their own experiences, depeding on how much they did with women early on in their life.