haha im going out with a girl knida like that i guess... shes fun, she talks to people in school, yes including guys i assume... and she always talks online probably to guys also... The thing you got to understand is that u will never be the ONLY guy in her life... there will always be the guys that she talks to etc... your just the one that she is committed to being with... that is if she is mature enough... When i go into my g/f's work and shes talking to other guys and kinda "flirty" i don't let it bother me... its just a part of life. shes gonna talk to other guys and all you can do is trust her.... cuz the minute you don't, u can kiss ur relationship goodbye. Also, don't be TOO nice cuz she may take advantage of it... trust me i learned the hard way... u've got to be a nice guy, but u've also got to be exciting and have a little "*******" control in you. Most important of ALL: you have to be confident in yourself... if you show her that ur insecure, whether emotionally or sexually, shes gonna feel like she "OWNS" u... don't let that happen! good luck bro. U know her better than anyone else here, give it time, and TALK and COMMUNICATE with her! thats SO IMPORTANT! PEACE