I don't understand the "girls hate it when guys write notes... girls hate it when guys tell their friends to talk to them for them... girls hate it when guys are easy to get.... girls hate it when guys do this, that, this, that..."

i mean, you can't tell me that's not a myth. just like "hard to get." how would that work? they would never be in love, becuase she would have to know that he likes her to be in a relationship, to make it work, thusly, he would not be "playing hard to get" and she would still like him.

and, what about the "girls think this, guys think this" thing? or "girls love it when guys... guys hate this about girls..." aren't we all humans? we are all basically the same. Yes, we do differ a little "boy/girl" but in essesnce, we are all the same. and it isn't impossible to figure out each other...

anyone else?