Man. I have been telling you for months to call it off. I'm really sorry though. I wish I could tell you some way to break up with her that wont hurt either of you but that wont happen. There is no such "technique." The fact that she was so slow about things was an obvious turn off. I don't know if I would have lasted as long as you did. It was noble of you to stay with her and deal with it for that long. Just try to work on YOUR happiness now. That is ovbiously what is most important.

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