'but of course when i find a girl that is "assertive," i'll probably ***** too.'
lol probably inkeeping but thats what lifes about!
Im quite a bit like mis...my response to the hungry thing would be pretty much the same! Altho i do have my moments where i mite think 'awww he's been really good today or hes done some really nice things etc' in which case i would go out of my way to do something for him, and my bf is the same. I think its best to have a balance. Like you say if someone is too avaliable or selfless u can lose some respect for them (altho i have no idea why) and completely selfish people just hack me off!
I doubt you'll be able to change her tho...and you probably shouldnt even try...you just need to work out if this attitude is something you can cope with...im sure there are plenty of worse points she could have!
