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Old 16-02-05, 11:26 PM
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If you do go there again it sounds like she would make it pretty hard for you to carry on contact with your friends, she still seems to be clingy as she is going round to see your parents when your no longer together and hanging out with your friends, its almost like shes trying to be in your life in every way she can, because she cant let go of your relationship ending.

My advice is not to go back to her with the attitude you have. It really does seem like the familiar thing to do, and would you even be thinking about her anymore if:
1) she wasnt seeing your parents and they wernt talking about her?
2) she wasnt speaking to your friends and they wernt talking about her?
3) you had another girlfriend

This girl is making sure you havent forgotten about her because she is still living out aspects of the life you shared with her, she clearly wants you back and i really think that if you did get back with her things wouldnt change. Her behaviour still appears to be very clingy and needy towards you, so i think the phonecalls etc would start again, and you would feel pressure from her to stop seeing your friends again.

IF you think you could get back together with her, and the feelings are more than just familiarity, knowing shes avaliable to you, and obviously u being horny, then go for it. But lay down the law and see your friends 3 nights a week straight away, dont become insperable again because it will give her all the wrong messages and you will be back where you started in the beginning. good luck -x-
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