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Old 17-02-05, 08:46 AM
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Am I right to be hurt?
First off, I am very sensitive person and get hurt easily...

I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, I'm 18, he just turned 20. We love eachother to death and get along great... but I am easily hurt by small things.

We're both studying and now I have 2 weeks off from school (I'm in the 1st week off), while he's still in classes. I stayed over at his house for Sunday and came home Monday. On Tuesdays, he has 3 hours without classes, for lunch and he usually doesn't have company on one of those hours. I told him I could meet him at school and spend those 3 hours with him, as I once did. He told me he didn't know if I should go, because he has Wednesday afternoon off and we'd have more time together if I met him Wednesday instead of Tuesday. I told him to think about it and then let me know, remembering we could be together both Tuesday and Wednesday.

On Monday night, we were on MSN and... he totally forgot about telling me to meet him or not. Later, I sent him an SMS telling him we hadn't planned anything, so, I'd be at home. He was off school by 15.30, he could have met, but he went home.

So, we were supposed to meet Wednesday (today) afternoon, but he forgot he had told a friend he'd go with him to check an amplifier He was going with his friend and meet me later (so much for the being with me more time on Wednesday). However, he felt sick during the night and ended up not leaving home.(I understand the fact that he didn't meet me because he was sick).

I like to talk with him once a day, so, one hour ago, I sent him an SMS asking if he would be on MSN later on or if I should call him. He replied 10 minutes ago, saying he was off to bed and that we'd talk tomorrow (it's 1 AM here). The thing is... he also has tomorrow afternoon off and didn't even mention seeing me. I replied saying that I also wanted to talk to him know if we would see eachother tomorrow, but that I had figured out we wouldn't.

What hurts me the most is that he is acting as if he doesn't care if he seems me or not. I know he enjoys being with me... another thing bothering me is that, when I'm in classes, we can only see eachother, at most, 2 times a week. He told me that, when I had this break, I'd stay for a week at his place (although I didn't accept it because don't want to feel like a burden to his family), to compensate for the times we were together 2 times a week and now, he doesn't even seem to care...=(

Do you think I am overreacting or would you feel the same way?
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