Well, when we first broke up we said we would still be friends and that if we could not see each other (at all) it would be too hard to break up....it made since at the time.

Then she moved out and she may as well have left the country, having only seen her on one or two occasions collecting something or on a night out. (Briefly)

Now I don’t feel I need to see her but think it would be good to establish some sort of relationship. Because when I have seen her out in a nightclub and it has been by accident and our reaction is to avoid each other, (one time we ended up queuing up at the bar in our own groups but next to each other), only talking when we have to.

So what I want is to sit down with a coffee so I find our level of friendship and to just find out how things are going for her, catch up. But I think that should be it. NO meeting up again. I’ll be happy if we can stop to say hello to each other with no awkwardness.

If it’s anything like when she moved out she will turn up with her 'new boyfriend'.