ok so, we have been going out for 6 months now, back in november i guess her friend walked around a corner and saw her makeing out with her friend cameron. she started yelling at her how she ****ed up and how she has a boyfriend and she broke down in tears and begged her not to tell me. after i guess it never happened again but she still hung out with the guy. in january the kid moved out to ohio and i havnt heard of him since. yesterday, her friend calls me and tells me that there is this guy who she met and it looks like its turning into what happened with cameron. im like what happened??? shes like her and caeron made out. im like thanks for telling me now. so i called my gf and got her to tell me her self what she had done. after yelling at her i called her back later that night. she was histericaly crying and would begin to cry harder everytime i would say i dont trust her anymore and see no future for us like i had seen before. i evetualy got tired of hearing her cry and told her that i see no future with her. she cried histericaly again and asked if i was breaking up with her. im like do you think you deserve a second chance. of course she said yes, and said how she ****ed up, how much she wants to be with me for ever and how much she loves me and doesnt want me to leave her. after silence for about 5 min. shes like are you breaking up with me??? im like no you can have another chance. but if it happens again as much as it will hurt we are over. after crying and thanking me we got off the phone after about an hour and a half. i told her yes because i was tired of her crying and wanted to go to sleep.

today im still pissed, hurt, and dont know what to do. i told her yes cus i was tired, wanted to go to sleep. but i wasnt sure if she deserved another chance. today im goin to see her, what should i say? i want to get through to her and find out if she is truly sorry or if she is sorry becuase she got cuaght.

last night on the phone i told her she cant hang out wit the guy she met cus it seemed her friendship with him was turning into an identical one such as the one she had wit cameron. i told her to tell him that and if he had a problem with it to take it up with me. she did and she said she wont be goin around him.



so my questions are what should i do?

how can i find out if she really cares and is sorry, or if shes just feels bad cuase she got cuaght?

should i give her another chance?

what should i say to her tomorow when i see her?


i love her so much and before i lost all trust in her and lost the vision of the future with her i invisioned us being together for awhile. now i still love her to death and i dont want to leave her. and it would hurt to leave her but id rather love and let go now, then love and be hurt again in the long run. i dont want to leave her but i dont want to be hurt again.
shes cried and cried sayin shes loves me and didnt know what she was thinking and how she never wants to be without me. please someone help what should i do?
just some info we are both 17. and we met 1 yr ago, and 6 months before goin out she totaly toyed with me and i guess i was a little obbsessive and it was a turn off for her. but when i stoped caring about her and stoped wanting to be with her she wanted me, and since august when i found out she liked me we've been going out. we've had no problems untill this, this was our first big fight.

again i need advise iv never been cheated on i dont know what to do. thanks in advance.

p.s. i dont really want to break up with her she means the world to me.