Originally Posted by ChromeBlue
thanks blackie i also wish you the best of luck, im sure youve been in situations i cant even imagine, your 51 im 17 goin on 18, yes im young but i cant imagine my self with anyone else. should i tell her this, iv been kinda tip toeing around it, but i feel if i could trust her agiain, that things were like they were before i knew, the great relationship we had, i feel shes the one i could spend my life with, but should i tell her?
Chrome, age really doesn't matter, heartbreak is heartbreak. I've got a lot of years/experiences on you but I still don't know what to do. I just checked, she's still asleep and I'm leaving for awhile for errands. I could handle the mental shit but not rubbing my nose in some other guy. (Even on the phone) Actually, she's the first to ever do that and it HURTS.
I will say this...I wouldn't advise using the words 'I could spend the rest of my life with you' as it sounds like you are proposing. I guess the best approach (and I'LL try and remember this myself today) is to take a deep breath before you say anything in person to her.Listen, let her know how you feel, but keep your responses measured.
Let me know what happens....