Its terrible but, you've gone down the friendship track. Although if you really want to know what the situation is between you both just got to ask. Remember don't be in shock of the answer cause you probably know it already. You need to find another love interest. I know its difficult sometimes cause all you might see is this one person. I know I've been there before. What can help you out is try talking with other girls you'll soon see that there are others that you have interests in. Just remember before it gets to the point of friendship let your intentions be known early. Take for instance point of friendship would be where you hang out regularly and do activites together better to quit before that point. Keep your distance at being someone you see once in a while like at the bar or local hang out like an aquantice. Don't hesitate after a few meetings to ask for their number and to have and outting with them. Then you can see from there where you can take this growing relationship. Its just my opinion. Peace out!