Glad i helped
I say the same thing to my boyfriend, so im able to 'organise' things with mates before hand. My bf usually just tells me to arrange stuff whenever i want and he'll just do whatever, cos his lad mates are usualy at the same local pub or round someones house watching a dvd every night, its a lot harder for me to organise the different sets of friends i have!
It really does help to know you have these problems too, because your right, they are silly things to worry about, its just learning not to worry and panic and then things will be fine. Its important that you are both able to have your own space to escape to, even when your married etc
Take care mate -x-