Ok, but why bother hitting on or asking out someone who's already taken? Do they honestly think I'm going to go "Oh my god! I have feelings for you too....screw my bf! Let's get it on!" I don't understand people who do that.

See, on the flip side of things, this girl 'friend' of my bf's told him she had feelings for him and wanted a relationship....but she knew damn well he was with me. To me that is just low, skanky behaviour and I would never DREAM of saying that to some other guy who had a gf already. So my bf actually ended up breaking up with me for two months to date her, and I kept asking him WHY....is she hotter than me? Better personality?? What? And he said no, you're actually way better than her, but she's a nice person and I want to get to know hher better. So I was like, ok, why can't you guys be FRIENDS?? Why do you have to date everyone you find 'nice'?

And of course, true to form, the relationship that should've stayed a friendship ended because a girl and a guy didn't get the difference between the two. My bf admits he was wrong. He admitted later too that "yeah, she never felt more than like a friend to me anyway...it was weird." Right!